are you on the menu
THIS SERIES OF WORK IS THE RESULT OF THE PAST DECADE OF MY WORK IN THE SERVICE INDUSTRY. IN TRUTH, THIS WORK’S INSPIRATION STEMS FURTHER BACK, BUDDING FROM MY FIRST AWARENESS OF THE COMMENTARY MY FEMALE BODY ENDURES WITHOUT MY CONSENT. EACH REMARK, COMMAND, AND QUESTION ARE QUOTES TAKEN FROM MY EXPERIENCES AS A SERVER, WITH MALE CUSTOMERS. THIS SERIES IS A PERSONAL RELEASE, AND A WAY TO GAIN OWNERSHIP OVER THE WORDS SAID TO ME BY MEN. IT IS THE ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF LANGUAGE THAT PERPETUATES SEXISM, MICROAGGRESSIONS, AND SEXUAL HARASSMENT SPOKEN AND HEARD NOT ONLY IN THE WORKPLACE BUT IN ALL SPACES.
THIS SERIES BREATHES WITH INTENTION. THE GUEST CHECKBOOKS HAVE MADE THEIR WAY INTO MY LIFE AS I UNCONSCIOUSLY BRING THEM HOME, ACCUMULATING THEM OVER THE YEARS OF SERVING AND BARTENDING. THESE NOTEPADS ATTACH THEMSELVES TO MY BODY DURING MY SHIFTS, BECOMING A PART OF ME, WE ARE THE SAME, POSSESSING THE QUALITIES OF FRAGILITY, REFLECTED WITHIN THE SMALL RIPS AND TEARS THAT CAN ONLY BE INSPECTED FROM A CLOSE DISTANCE. THE SHARP POINT OF THE SEWING NEEDLE IS A METAPHOR FOR THE PAIN OF MICROAGGRESSIONS THAT SLOWLY AND UNCONSCIOUSLY REVEALS THEMSELVES AND WORSEN THROUGH REPEATED INFLICTION. JUST AS THE STITCHES IN THESE WORKS ARE PERMANENTLY PUNCTURED, THE WORDS SAID TO ME BY MEN CANNOT BE ERASED OR UNDONE. MY NEEDLE, SEWING THREAD, AND GUEST CHECKBOOK ACT AS TOOLS OF MEDITATIVE RESISTANCE WHILE REFERENCING THE HISTORICALLY ROOTED PRACTICE OF CROSS-STITCHING AND NEEDLEWORK AS “WOMEN’S WORK.” THIS SERIES CONSISTS OF ONE-HUNDRED WORKS THAT INDIVIDUALLY AND COLLECTIVELY QUESTION THE PATRIARCHAL DOMINATED SOCIETY WE LIVE IN WHILE ACTING AS A FORCE OF BOTH PERSONAL RELEASE AND OWNERSHIP OF MY FEMALE FORM.
today's special: misogyny with a slice of sexism, Solo Show Exhibition, Kaiser Gallery (2022), Cleveland, Ohio
"share your story" (installation)
"bonfire with dad" (video installation) This video explores the relationship between my dad and "are you on the menu." My dad shares the average identity of the men whose remarks, commands, and questions I documented at the restaurant I worked at. Despite the uncomfortable situation, I invited him to read these words aloud to me and reflect on his relation to my experience.
This video takes place in nature, specifically in my childhood backyard. Not only is this place a symbol of safety and home for me, but this is the first place where my dad taught me how to navigate the world with curiosity and wonder.
This is also the place where my dad first taught me how to make a bonfire, which is a practice that we deeply connect on and love doing together. The ritual of tending a fire and the act of burning these papers was healing.
Easy Prey, Emily Davis Gallery, 2023, Akron, Ohio
Boundaries, Women Made Gallery, 2021, Chicago, Illinois
During her performance, The artist read each story aloud, repeating words and phrases over and over, as she stitched each story together, creating a visual symbol of connection.
Bukovec shares, “the act of stitching the “share your story” wall responses together symbolizes an affirmation of “I hear you, I see you” and reinforces a connectivity of shared experience.
my unraveling, Found Object Installation, Kaiser Gallery, 2021
The words on the keys of this old, discarded, cash register (that was rescued from a dumpster outside of Bukovec's family business) represent her twisted internal conflict and the unraveling of her mind while being harassed in the service industry.
Bukovec created this installation using found objects from the restaurant industry, sewing supplies, and thread that guides viewers to the writing on the wall, which outlines facts and timelines of making "are you on the menu."
One example reads, "It took Morgan 3-8 hours to stitch one guest checkbook."
Women’s Work: New Takes on Textile Art, Reeves House (2021), Woodstock, Georgia
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